How to pronounce they in American English
dhay
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Americans pronounce they as dhay (/ðeɪ/).
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Why it sounds different
Why "they" sounds like dhay.
Between "" and "", a brief "" glide bridges the two vowels for smooth flow. This is called the Vowel-to-Vowel Linking, the way sentences stop sounding like a list and start sounding like speech. It comes out as dhay.
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"All well that ends well, they tell."
AHL wehl dhuht EHNDZ wehl dhay TEHL
"Although they are brothers, they loathe each other."
ahl·DHOH dhay er BRUH·dherz dhay LOHDH EECH UH·dher
"Don't desert your friends when they need you."
DOHNT duh·ZURT yer FREHNDZ wehn dhay NEED yoo
"Eight people had to wait to see how much they ate."
AYT PEE·puhl had tuh WAYT tuh SEE HOW MUHCH dhay AYT
"Freedom of religion allows people to worship as they choose."
FREE·duhm uhv ruh·LIH·juhn uh·LOWZ PEE·puhl tuh WUR·shuhp uhz dhay CHOOZ
"He expressed his disappointment when they canceled the event."
hee uhk·SPREHST hihz dih·suh·POYNT·muhnt wehn dhay KAN·suhld dhee uh·VEHNT
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Is the American pronunciation of "they" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "dhay" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.
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