Lift your bottom lip so its inner edge (where the wet part meets the dry part) touches the very bottom of your top front teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you blow air through.

Americans pronounce very as VEH-ree (/ˈvɛri/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Very rare" or "A very nice van" — more examples below.
Record yourself saying "very" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
2 syllables, 4 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Lift your bottom lip so its inner edge (where the wet part meets the dry part) touches the very bottom of your top front teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you blow air through.

Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.

Click any sentence to see the full breakdown — every link, every reduction, every flap-T.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch VEH — keep everything else short and quick.