Flare your lips and lift the mid-front tongue close to the roof of your mouth. Blow air through without voicing.

Americans pronounce sharpen as SHAR-puhn (/ˈʃɑrpən/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "He sharpen his skates before stepping onto the ice".
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2 syllables, 5 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
The schwa before N disappears — N becomes the vowel of the syllable. Go straight from the previous consonant to N.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "sharpen", the short unstressed vowel before "n" disappears — the schwa is absorbed and the "n" becomes the syllable nucleus on its own. Schwa is absorbed — consonant becomes the syllable nucleus.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch SHAR — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.