Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce spare as SPAIR (/spɛr/). You'll hear it in sentences like "Take care to share the spare chair" or "He builds detailed model airplanes in his spare time" — more examples below.
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1 syllable, 3 sounds. Explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

Start with the 'eh' vowel mouth position. Pull the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.