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Americans pronounce border as BOR-der (/ˈbɔrdər/). In "border", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, and it's why Americans sound more relaxed than the textbook. So instead of BOR·ter, you get BOR·der. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The rebel base was built below the border" or "Talk to the lawyer before you cross the border" — more examples below.
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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "border", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch BOR — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.