Press your lips together, add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Americans pronounce backyard as BAK-yard (/ˈbækˌjɑrd/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "He planted a vegetable garden in his backyard" or "She raises chickens in her backyard for fresh eggs" — more examples below.
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2 syllables, 6 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Press your lips together, add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Drop the jaw noticeably. Keep the body of the tongue low and forward, and don't let the back of the tongue raise toward the soft palate. Pull the lip corners back slightly, almost a starting smile.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Lift the middle of your tongue toward the roof of your mouth, but stop just short of touching. /j/ is an approximant, not a stop. The tongue tip stays down, lightly resting near the back of your bottom front teeth. Voice runs through the whole gesture, and the tongue glides smoothly down into the next vowel. The lips stay neutral or pre-shape for the upcoming vowel (rounding early for OO in <em>youth</em>, for example).

Open wide for the 'ah' vowel. Lift the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "backyard", the "d" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch BAK — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.