Press your lips together, add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Americans pronounce becomes as buh-KUHMZ (/bəˈkʌmz/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I need to unclog the drain before it becomes a bigger problem".
Record yourself saying "becomes" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
2 syllables, 6 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Press your lips together. Air flows through your nose. Vocal cords vibrate.

Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch KUHMZ — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.