How to pronounce bender in American English
BEHN·der
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Americans pronounce bender as BEHN-der (/ˈbɛndər/). The R is one continuous sound with the vowel — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick.
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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.
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01
Stressing the wrong syllable.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch BEHN — keep everything else short and quick.
behn·DER→BEHN·der
02
Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.
… (no R)→… r (curl the tongue)
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How is "bender" stressed in American English?
Stress falls on the first syllable — say "BEHN" with a longer, fuller vowel and keep every other syllable short and quick. The respell "BEHN-der" marks the stressed syllable in capitals so the rhythm is easy to read at a glance.
How do I pronounce the R in "bender"?
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R: the tongue curls back rather than rolling, and the R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it — not two separate sounds. Don't try to pronounce a separate vowel followed by a separate R. Treat them as a single shape.
Is the American pronunciation of "bender" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "BEHN-der" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.