How to pronounce gender in American English

IPA /ˈdʒɛndər/ Syllables 2 · jehn·der Stress 1st syllable
JEHN·der
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Americans pronounce gender as JEHN-der (/ˈdʒɛndər/). The R is one continuous sound with the vowel — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick.

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Common mistakes

Stressing the wrong syllable.

Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch JEHN — keep everything else short and quick.

Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.

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Why it sounds different

Why "gender" sounds like JEHN·der.

The "" at the end of "" flows directly into the vowel starting "" — the consonant migrates to the next word with no pause between. This is called the Consonant-to-Vowel Linking, a tiny act of laziness that makes the rhythm feel right. It comes out as JEHN·der.

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"Discrimination based on race or gender is strictly prohibited."
dih·skrih·muh·NAY·shuhn BAYST ahn RAYS or JEHN·der ihz STRIHKT·lee proh·HIH·buh·tuhd
"Gender equality in the workplace remains an ongoing struggle."
JEHN·der uh·KWAH·luh·tee ihn dhuh WURK·plays ruh·MAYNZ uhn AHN·goh·uhng STRUH·guhl
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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.

01

Stressing the wrong syllable.

Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch JEHN — keep everything else short and quick.

jehn·DERJEHN·der
02

Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.

… (no R)r (curl the tongue)
Questions

Questions people ask about this.

How is "gender" stressed in American English?
Stress falls on the first syllable — say "JEHN" with a longer, fuller vowel and keep every other syllable short and quick. The respell "JEHN-der" marks the stressed syllable in capitals so the rhythm is easy to read at a glance.
How do I pronounce the R in "gender"?
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R: the tongue curls back rather than rolling, and the R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it — not two separate sounds. Don't try to pronounce a separate vowel followed by a separate R. Treat them as a single shape.
Is the American pronunciation of "gender" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "JEHN-der" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.

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