Press your lips together, add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Americans pronounce buffay as buh-FAY (/bəˈfeɪ/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick.
Record yourself saying "buffay" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
2 syllables, 4 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

Start with your jaw slightly open and the front of your tongue forward and slightly up. Glide upward, your jaw closes a little more and your tongue arches higher toward the roof of the mouth.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch FAY — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.