Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Americans pronounce can't as KANT (/kænt/). In "can't", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. This is called the Cat-Vowel Before M/N, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as KANT. You'll hear it in sentences like "I can't believe you forgot!" or "You can speak French, can't you?" — more examples below.
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Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

The tongue relaxes down in the back and the corners of the lips relax before the consonant. This adds a schwa-like 'uh' relaxation after the /æ/. Think of it as 'relaxing out of the vowel' — it is no longer a pure /æ/ sound.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

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In "can't", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.