Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Americans pronounce commute as kuh-MYOOT (/kəˈmjut/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I need to adjust my alarm because my commute takes longer than expected".
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2 syllables, 5 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Press your lips together. Air flows through your nose. Vocal cords vibrate.

Start with the tongue mid-front raised high, almost touching the roof of the mouth (but not touching). Glide into a tight lip circle as the tongue back lifts.
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch MYOOT — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.