Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Americans pronounce connects as kuh-NEHKTS (/kəˈnɛkts/). In "connects", the "t" is squeezed between other consonants and drops out — the surrounding consonants flow together without it — most natural in flowing, casual speech; in careful or formal speech, the T may be lightly present. This is called the Silent T in Clusters, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as kuh·NEHKTS. Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The internet of things connects billions of devices worldwide".
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2 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

The T is skipped entirely. Your tongue doesn't make contact at the T position.

Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "connects", the "t" is squeezed between other consonants and drops out — the surrounding consonants flow together without it — most natural in flowing, casual speech; in careful or formal speech, the T may be lightly present. /t/ is dropped entirely — the surrounding consonants flow together without the T.
In "connects", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch NEHKTS — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.