Press your lips together. Air flows through your nose. Vocal cords vibrate.

Americans pronounce mat as MAT (/mæt/). You'll hear it in sentences like "The cat sat on the mat" or "Put the hat on the mat and sit tight" — more examples below.
Record yourself saying "mat" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
1 syllable, 3 sounds. Explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Press your lips together. Air flows through your nose. Vocal cords vibrate.

Drop the jaw noticeably. Keep the body of the tongue low and forward, and don't let the back of the tongue raise toward the soft palate. Pull the lip corners back slightly, almost a starting smile.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Click any sentence to see the full breakdown — every link, every reduction, every flap-T.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "mat", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.