Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Americans pronounce net as NEHT (/nɛt/). You'll hear it in sentences like "The hockey players skated aggressively towards the net" or "He plays the position of goalkeeper and protects the net" — more examples below.
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Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "net", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.