How to pronounce stare in American English

IPA /stɛr/ Syllables 1 · stair Stress 1st syllable
STAIR
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Americans pronounce stare as STAIR (/stɛr/). You'll hear it in sentences like "It is not fair to stare" or "Stare at the glare of the square flare" — more examples below.

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Common mistakes

Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.

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1 syllable, 3 sounds. Explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.

s/s/

Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Mouth position for /s/ as in SUN
t/t/

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Mouth position for /t/ as in TEN
air/ɛr/

Start with the 'eh' vowel mouth position. Pull the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.

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"It is not fair to stare."
iht ihz NAHT FAIR tuh STAIR
"Stare at the glare of the square flare."
STAIR uht dhuh GLAIR uhv dhuh SKWAIR FLAIR
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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.

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Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.

… (no R)r (curl the tongue)
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How do I pronounce the R in "stare"?
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R: the tongue curls back rather than rolling, and the R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it — not two separate sounds. Don't try to pronounce a separate vowel followed by a separate R. Treat them as a single shape.
Is the American pronunciation of "stare" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "STAIR" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.

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