How to pronounce stare in American English

IPA /stɛr/ Syllables 1 · stair Stress 1st syllable

STAIR

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Americans pronounce stare as STAIR (/stɛr/). The R is one continuous sound with the vowel — the tongue curls back rather than rolling.

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Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.

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Why it sounds different

Why "stare" sounds like STAIR.

The "" at the end of "" flows directly into the vowel starting "" — the consonant migrates to the next word with no pause between. This is called the Consonant-to-Vowel Linking, the way sentences stop sounding like a list and start sounding like speech. It comes out as STAIR.

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"It is not fair to stare."

iht ihz NAHT FAIR tuh STAIR

"Stare at the glare of the square flare."

STAIR uht dhuh GLAIR uhv dhuh SKWAIR FLAIR

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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.

Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.

… (no R)→… r (curl the tongue)

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How do I pronounce the R in "stare"?

Americans use a relaxed retroflex R: the tongue curls back rather than rolling, and the R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it — not two separate sounds. Don't try to pronounce a separate vowel followed by a separate R. Treat them as a single shape.

Is the American pronunciation of "stare" different from British English?

American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "STAIR" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.

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Why "stare" sounds like STAIR.

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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.

Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.

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