Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Americans pronounce compared as kuhm-PAIRD (/kəmˈpɛrd/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "She compared the unit prices to find the best deal" or "The trade deficit widened significantly compared to last year" — more examples below.
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2 syllables, 6 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

Start with the 'eh' vowel mouth position. Pull the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "compared", the "d" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch PAIRD — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.