Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Americans pronounce deadly as DEHD-lee (/ˈdɛdli/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Vaccines have been instrumental in eradicating many deadly diseases".
Record yourself saying "deadly" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
2 syllables, 5 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.

Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "deadly", the "d" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch DEHD — keep everything else short and quick.