Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Americans pronounce declared as duh-KLAIRD (/dəˈklɛrd/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The judge declared a mistrial due to a procedural error".
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2 syllables, 6 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Start with the 'eh' vowel mouth position. Pull the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch KLAIRD — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.