f/f/
Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.
How to pronounce friendship in American English
FREHND·shihp
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Americans pronounce friendship as FREHND-shihp (/ˈfrɛndʃɪp/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I value our friendship and I do not want to lose it".
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2 syllables, 8 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
r/r/
Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
eh/ɛ/
Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.
n/n/
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.
d/d/
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.
sh/ʃ/
Flare your lips and lift the mid-front tongue close to the roof of your mouth. Blow air through without voicing.
ih/ɪ/
Drop your jaw slightly with relaxed lips. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and arch the top-front toward the roof.
p/p/
Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.
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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
01
Releasing the final consonant with a puff of air.
In "friendship", the "p" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
friendship→FREHND·shihp
02
Stressing the wrong syllable.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch FREHND — keep everything else short and quick.
frehnd·SHIHP→FREHND·shihp
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How is "friendship" stressed in American English?
Stress falls on the first syllable — say "FREHND" with a longer, fuller vowel and keep every other syllable short and quick. The respell "FREHND-shihp" marks the stressed syllable in capitals so the rhythm is easy to read at a glance.
Is the American pronunciation of "friendship" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "FREHND-shihp" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.
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