Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate. Add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Americans pronounce glare as GLAIR (/glɛr/). You'll hear it in sentences like "Stare at the glare of the square flare".
Record yourself saying "glare" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
1 syllable, 3 sounds. Explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate. Add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Start with the 'eh' vowel mouth position. Pull the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.