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Americans pronounce meter as MEE-ter (/ˈmiɾər/). In "meter", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, and it's why Americans sound more relaxed than the textbook. It comes out as MEE·ter. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "He broke his own personal record in the hundred-meter sprint".
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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "meter", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch MEE — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.