Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Americans pronounce nancy as NAN-see (/ˈnænsi/). In "nancy", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. This is called the Cat-Vowel Before M/N, and it's why Americans sound more relaxed than the textbook. It comes out as NAN·see. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Nancy needs a new notion for the novel".
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Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

The tongue relaxes down in the back and the corners of the lips relax before the consonant. This adds a schwa-like 'uh' relaxation after the /æ/. Think of it as 'relaxing out of the vowel' — it is no longer a pure /æ/ sound.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "nancy", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch NAN — keep everything else short and quick.