Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce sandy as SAN-dee (/ˈsændi/). In "sandy", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. This is called the Cat-Vowel Before M/N, a small move that separates 'classroom' from 'native'. It comes out as SAN·dee. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "We drove through a vast, sandy desert" or "She walked along the sandy beach at sunset" — more examples below.
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Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

The tongue relaxes down in the back and the corners of the lips relax before the consonant. This adds a schwa-like 'uh' relaxation after the /æ/. Think of it as 'relaxing out of the vowel' — it is no longer a pure /æ/ sound.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "sandy", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch SAN — keep everything else short and quick.