Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Americans pronounce optional as AHP-shuh-nuhl (/ˈɑpʃənəl/). The L in "optional" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. This is called the Dark L vs Light L, a small move that separates 'classroom' from 'native'. It comes out as AHP·shuh·nuhl. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "He earned extra credit by completing the optional assignment".
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3 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

The schwa before N disappears — N becomes the vowel of the syllable. Go straight from the previous consonant to N.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Keep the tongue tip down and pull the back of the tongue up toward the throat. The 'dark' sound comes from the back.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
The L in "optional" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. Dark L adds a small schwa-like "uh" before the L. The back of the tongue lifts toward the soft palate.
In "optional", the "p" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
In "optional", the short unstressed vowel before "n" disappears — the schwa is absorbed and the "n" becomes the syllable nucleus on its own. Schwa is absorbed — consonant becomes the syllable nucleus.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch AHP — keep everything else short and quick.