Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Americans pronounce oxygen as AHK-suh-juhn (/ˈɑksədʒən/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The atmosphere is composed of nitrogen, oxygen, and other gases" or "The circulatory system transports blood and oxygen throughout the body" — more examples below.
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3 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Touch the front of your tongue to the roof of your mouth, then release into a 'zh' position. Add vocal cord vibration.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
The schwa before N disappears — N becomes the vowel of the syllable. Go straight from the previous consonant to N.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "oxygen", the short unstressed vowel before "n" disappears — the schwa is absorbed and the "n" becomes the syllable nucleus on its own. Schwa is absorbed — consonant becomes the syllable nucleus.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch AHK — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.