How to pronounce pity in American English

IPA /ˈpɪɾi/ Syllables 2 · pih·tee Stress 1st syllable
PIH·tee
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Americans pronounce pity as PIH-tee (/ˈpɪɾi/). The T between vowels softens into a quick D-like flap, so it sounds closer to a D than a crisp T. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick.

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Common mistakes

Saying a hard "T" in the middle.

In "pity", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.

Stressing the wrong syllable.

Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch PIH — keep everything else short and quick.

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Why it sounds different

Why "pity" sounds like PIH·tee.

In "pity", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. It comes out as PIH·tee.

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"It is a pity that the kitten bit the mitten."
iht ihz uh PIH·dee dhuht dhuh KIH·tuhn BIHT dhuh MIH·tuhn
"It's a pity we couldn't stay longer."
ihts uh PIH·dee wee KUU·duhnt STAY LAHNG·ger
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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.

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01

Saying a hard "T" in the middle.

In "pity", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.

PIH-teePIH·tee
02

Stressing the wrong syllable.

Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch PIH — keep everything else short and quick.

pih·TEEPIH·tee
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How is "pity" stressed in American English?
Stress falls on the first syllable — say "PIH" with a longer, fuller vowel and keep every other syllable short and quick. The respell "PIH-tee" marks the stressed syllable in capitals so the rhythm is easy to read at a glance.
Why doesn't the T sound like a T in "pity"?
In American English, when /t/ sits between two vowels with the second one unstressed, it turns into a quick D-like flap. So "pity" sounds closer to "PIH-tee" than to a crisp-T pronunciation. This is the flap-T rule, one of the most distinctive sounds of casual American speech.
Is the American pronunciation of "pity" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "PIH-tee" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.

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