Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
How to pronounce abilities in American English
Americans pronounce abilities as uh-BIH-luh-teez (/əˈbɪləɾiz/). In "abilities", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, and it's why Americans sound more relaxed than the textbook. It comes out as uh·BIH·luh·teez. Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Your problem-solving abilities have been an asset to the team".
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Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Saying a hard "T" in the middle.
In "abilities", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stressing the wrong syllable.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch BIH — keep everything else short and quick.
Pronouncing the first syllable too fully.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.



