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Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
How to pronounce rather in American English
RA·dher
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Americans pronounce rather as RA-dher (/ˈræðər/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I'd rather stay home than go out" or "Rather rarely, the rabbit ran right" — more examples below.
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Every sound in "rather".
2 syllables, 4 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
a/æ/
Drop the jaw noticeably. Keep the body of the tongue low and forward, and don't let the back of the tongue raise toward the soft palate. Pull the lip corners back slightly, almost a starting smile.
dh/ð/
Place your tongue tip between or behind your front teeth, turn your vocal cords on, and push air through the gap.
er/ər/
Relax your mouth and lift the tongue back and up. Keep the lips neutral.
In real conversation
Hear "rather" in the wild.
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"I'd rather not talk about this anymore."
AHYD RA·dher NAHT TAHK uh·BOWT DHIHS eh·nee·MOR
"Rather rarely, the rabbit ran right."
RA·dher RAIR·lee dhuh RA·buht RAN RAHYT
"She prefers to buy fresh ingredients rather than frozen ones."
shee pruh·FURZ tuh BAHY FREHSH ihn·GREE·dee·uhnts RA·dher dhuhn FROH·zuhn WUHNZ
"The rhythm of the weather was rather soothing."
dhuh RIH·dhuhm uhv dhuh WEH·dher wuhz RA·dher SOO·dhuhng
"I'd rather stay home than go out."
AHYD RA·dher STAY HOHM dhuhn GOH OWT
"The southern weather is rather worthy."
dhuh SUH·dhern WEH·dher ihz RA·dher WUR·dhee
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Watch out
Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
01
Stressing the wrong syllable.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch RA — keep everything else short and quick.
ra·DHER→RA·dher
02
Pronouncing the "R" too clearly.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.
… (no R)→… r (curl the tongue)
Questions
Questions people ask about this.
How is "rather" stressed in American English?
Stress falls on the first syllable — say "RA" with a longer, fuller vowel and keep every other syllable short and quick. The respell "RA-dher" marks the stressed syllable in capitals so the rhythm is easy to read at a glance.
How do I pronounce the R in "rather"?
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R: the tongue curls back rather than rolling, and the R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it — not two separate sounds. Don't try to pronounce a separate vowel followed by a separate R. Treat them as a single shape.
Is the American pronunciation of "rather" different from British English?
American English uses different vowel shapes, a relaxed retroflex R, and connected-speech tricks like flap-T and glottal-stop T that British Received Pronunciation generally avoids. The respell "RA-dher" reflects the casual American form; British dictionaries typically print a citation form with crisper consonants and different vowel choices.
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