Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce scholarship as SKAH-ler-shihp (/ˈskɑlərˌʃɪp/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "She received a full scholarship for her outstanding academic record" or "The scholarship committee will announce the recipients after graduation" — more examples below.
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3 syllables, 8 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Relax your mouth and lift the tongue back and up. Keep the lips neutral.

Flare your lips and lift the mid-front tongue close to the roof of your mouth. Blow air through without voicing.

Drop your jaw slightly with relaxed lips. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and arch the top-front toward the roof.

Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "scholarship", the "p" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch SKAH — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.