Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce softball as SAHFT-bahl (/ˈsɑftˌbɑl/). In "softball", the "t" is squeezed between other consonants and drops out — the surrounding consonants flow together without it — most natural in flowing, casual speech; in careful or formal speech, the T may be lightly present. This is called the Silent T in Clusters, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. It comes out as SAHFT·BAHL. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "She plays softball on a competitive travel team".
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2 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

The T is skipped entirely. Your tongue doesn't make contact at the T position.

Press your lips together, add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Relax your lips and drop your jaw significantly. The tongue tip lightly touches behind the bottom front teeth and the back part of the tongue presses down a little to create more dark space in the back of the mouth.

Keep the tongue tip down and pull the back of the tongue up toward the throat. The 'dark' sound comes from the back.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "softball", the "t" is squeezed between other consonants and drops out — the surrounding consonants flow together without it — most natural in flowing, casual speech; in careful or formal speech, the T may be lightly present. /t/ is dropped entirely — the surrounding consonants flow together without the T.
The L in "softball" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. Dark L adds a small schwa-like "uh" before the L. The back of the tongue lifts toward the soft palate.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch SAHFT — keep everything else short and quick.