Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Americans pronounce conflict as kuhn-FLIHKT (/kənˈflɪkt/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I have a scheduling conflict on Friday afternoon" or "Their personal goals often conflict with their duties" — more examples below.
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Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Drop your jaw slightly with relaxed lips. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and arch the top-front toward the roof.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "conflict", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch FLIHKT — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.