Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Americans pronounce confusing as kuhn-FYOO-zuhng (/kənˈfjuzɪŋ/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "He wrote a negative review about the movie's confusing plot".
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Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch FYOO — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.