Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.

Americans pronounce escalated as EH-skuh-lay-tuhd (/ˈɛskəˌleɪɾəd/). In "escalated", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, and it's one of the defining features of casual American English. So instead of EH·skuh·lay·tuht, you get EH·skuh·LAY·tuhd. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Geopolitical tensions have escalated in the disputed territory".
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Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
The schwa before L disappears — L becomes the vowel of the syllable. Go straight from the previous consonant to a Dark L.

Start with your jaw slightly open and the front of your tongue forward and slightly up. Glide upward, your jaw closes a little more and your tongue arches higher toward the roof of the mouth.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "escalated", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch EH — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.