Drop your jaw slightly with relaxed lips. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and arch the top-front toward the roof.

Americans pronounce exceeded as ihk-SEE-duhd (/ɪkˈsidəd/). In "exceeded", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. So instead of ihk·SEE·tuht, you get ihk·SEE·duhd. Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The results of the experiment exceeded our initial expectations" or "Your accomplishments this quarter exceeded our initial benchmarks" — more examples below.
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Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Same as Flap T — a quick tap without stopping airflow.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "exceeded", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch SEE — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the second syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.