Push a stream of air from your throat through your open mouth. No tongue or lip contact.

Americans pronounce hands as HANDZ (/hændz/). In "hands", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. This is called the Cat-Vowel Before M/N, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as HANDZ. You'll hear it in sentences like "He uses chalk to keep his hands dry while lifting" or "The workshop provided hands-on experience with the new software" — more examples below.
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Push a stream of air from your throat through your open mouth. No tongue or lip contact.

The tongue relaxes down in the back and the corners of the lips relax before the consonant. This adds a schwa-like 'uh' relaxation after the /æ/. Think of it as 'relaxing out of the vowel' — it is no longer a pure /æ/ sound.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "hands", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.