Press your lips together. Air flows through your nose. Vocal cords vibrate.

Americans pronounce meditating as MEH-duh-tay-tuhng (/ˈmɛdəˌɾeɪɾɪŋ/). In "meditating", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. So instead of MEH·tuh·tay·tuhng, you get MEH·duh·TAY·tuhng. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "She has been meditating daily to improve her mental health".
Record yourself saying "meditating" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
4 syllables, 9 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Start with your jaw slightly open and the front of your tongue forward and slightly up. Glide upward, your jaw closes a little more and your tongue arches higher toward the roof of the mouth.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Lift the back of your tongue to the soft palate. Lower your soft palate to let air flow through your nose.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "meditating", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch MEH — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.