Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce social as SOH-shuhl (/ˈsoʊʃəl/). The L in "social" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. This is called the Dark L vs Light L, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. It comes out as SOH·shuhl. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "His social life is very active" or "The social issue caused a crucial crash" — more examples below.
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Flare your lips and lift the mid-front tongue close to the roof of your mouth. Blow air through without voicing.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Keep the tongue tip down and pull the back of the tongue up toward the throat. The 'dark' sound comes from the back.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
The L in "social" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. Dark L adds a small schwa-like "uh" before the L. The back of the tongue lifts toward the soft palate.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch SOH — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.