Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce starting as STAR-tuhng (/ˈstɑrɾəŋ/). In "starting", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. It comes out as STAR·tuhng. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The spring flowers are starting to bloom" or "The bus fare increased by fifty cents starting this month" — more examples below.
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2 syllables, 6 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Open wide for the 'ah' vowel. Lift the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Lift the back of your tongue to the soft palate. Lower your soft palate to let air flow through your nose.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "starting", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch STAR — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.