Tongue pulls back slightly from the T position, blending into R. Sounds close to 'chr'.

Americans pronounce treating as TREE-tuhng (/ˈtriɾəŋ/). In "treating", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. It comes out as TREE·tuhng. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "How is the new job treating you so far?".
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Tongue pulls back slightly from the T position, blending into R. Sounds close to 'chr'.

Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Lift the back of your tongue to the soft palate. Lower your soft palate to let air flow through your nose.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "treating", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
In "treating", the "tr" cluster blends into a "chr" sound — a natural American English pronunciation. /t/ shifts toward /tʃ/ ("ch"), so TR sounds like "chr".
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch TREE — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.