Press your lips together, add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Americans pronounce butterfly as BUH-ter-flahy (/ˈbʌɾərˌflaɪ/). In "butterfly", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, and it's why Americans sound more relaxed than the textbook. It comes out as BUH·ter·FLAHY. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The butterfly emerged from its chrysalis with colorful wings" or "The lifecycle of a butterfly includes the caterpillar and pupa stages" — more examples below.
Record yourself saying "butterfly" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
3 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Start with your jaw open wide and your tongue resting low and flat. Glide the front of your tongue up toward the roof of your mouth as your jaw closes halfway.
Click any sentence to see the full breakdown — every link, every reduction, every flap-T.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "butterfly", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch BUH — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.