Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Americans pronounce domestic as duh-MEH-stuhk (/dəˈmɛstək/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Is your flight domestic or international?" or "The campaign raised funds for victims of domestic violence" — more examples below.
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3 syllables, 8 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "domestic", the "k" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch MEH — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.