How to pronounce family in American English
Americans pronounce family as FAM-lee (/ˈfæmli/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick.
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Why "family" sounds like FAM·lee.
Between "" and "", a brief "" glide bridges the two vowels for smooth flow. This is called the Vowel-to-Vowel Linking, the way sentences stop sounding like a list and start sounding like speech. It comes out as FAM·lee.
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Common pronunciation mistakes in American English.
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Pronouncing the vowel before M/N too pure.
In "family", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.
Stressing the wrong syllable.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch FAM — keep everything else short and quick.
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