Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

Americans pronounce families as FA-muh-leez (/ˈfæməliz/). In "families", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. This is called the Cat-Vowel Before M/N, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as FA·muh·leez. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Commencement is a proud moment for graduates and their families" or "Housing affordability remains a pressing issue for young families" — more examples below.
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Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

The tongue relaxes down in the back and the corners of the lips relax before the consonant. This adds a schwa-like 'uh' relaxation after the /æ/. Think of it as 'relaxing out of the vowel' — it is no longer a pure /æ/ sound.

The schwa before L disappears — L becomes the vowel of the syllable. Go straight from the previous consonant to a Dark L.

Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "families", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch FA — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.