Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate. Add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Americans pronounce grateful as GRAYT-fuhl (/ˈgreɪtfəl/). The L in "grateful" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. This is called the Dark L vs Light L, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as GRAYT·fuhl. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I am so grateful for all the support you have given me" or "I would be grateful if you could expedite this request" — more examples below.
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Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate. Add vocal cord vibration, then release.

Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
Start with your jaw slightly open and the front of your tongue forward and slightly up. Glide upward, your jaw closes a little more and your tongue arches higher toward the roof of the mouth.
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Keep the tongue tip down and pull the back of the tongue up toward the throat. The 'dark' sound comes from the back.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
The L in "grateful" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. Dark L adds a small schwa-like "uh" before the L. The back of the tongue lifts toward the soft palate.
In "grateful", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch GRAYT — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.