Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce spreadsheet as SPREHD-sheet (/ˈsprɛdˌʃit/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Please refer to the attached spreadsheet for the detailed breakdown".
Record yourself saying "spreadsheet" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
2 syllables, 8 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
Drop your jaw moderately. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and lift the mid-front part slightly toward the roof.

Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Flare your lips and lift the mid-front tongue close to the roof of your mouth. Blow air through without voicing.

Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "spreadsheet", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch SPREHD — keep everything else short and quick.