Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce stands as STANDZ (/stændz/). In "stands", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. This is called the Cat-Vowel Before M/N, and it's one of the defining features of casual American English. It comes out as STANDZ. You'll hear it in sentences like "He caught a foul ball hit into the stands".
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1 syllable, 6 sounds. Explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

The tongue relaxes down in the back and the corners of the lips relax before the consonant. This adds a schwa-like 'uh' relaxation after the /æ/. Think of it as 'relaxing out of the vowel' — it is no longer a pure /æ/ sound.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth behind your teeth. Air flows through your nose.

Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "stands", the "a" vowel before M or N raises and fronts toward [eə] — the tongue pulls up and forward, breaking the vowel into a tense glide as it anticipates the nasal. The "/æ/" vowel raises and fronts before M or N — tongue pulls up and forward, producing a tense [eə] glide (between /e/ and /ə/). Not a pure /æ/.