Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce strictly as STRIHKT-lee (/ˈstrɪktli/). In "strictly", the "t" is squeezed between other consonants and drops out — the surrounding consonants flow together without it — most natural in flowing, casual speech; in careful or formal speech, the T may be lightly present. This is called the Silent T in Clusters, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as STRIHKT·lee. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The big building in the city is strictly off limits" or "Discrimination based on race or gender is strictly prohibited" — more examples below.
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Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
Drop your jaw slightly with relaxed lips. Touch the tongue tip behind the bottom front teeth and arch the top-front toward the roof.

Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

The T is skipped entirely. Your tongue doesn't make contact at the T position.

Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "strictly", the "t" is squeezed between other consonants and drops out — the surrounding consonants flow together without it — most natural in flowing, casual speech; in careful or formal speech, the T may be lightly present. /t/ is dropped entirely — the surrounding consonants flow together without the T.
In "strictly", the "t" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch STRIHKT — keep everything else short and quick.