Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce surprised as ser-PRAHYZD (/sərˈpraɪzd/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "Her perfect score surprised the entire department" or "I was surprised to hear about the changes at your company" — more examples below.
Record yourself saying "surprised" and play it back. The mic stays on your device — nothing's uploaded.
2 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Press your lips together to stop the air, then release. No vocal cord vibration.

Curl or bunch your tongue without letting the tip touch the roof of your mouth. Brace the sides of your tongue against your upper back teeth, and round your lips slightly.
Start with your jaw open wide and your tongue resting low and flat. Glide the front of your tongue up toward the roof of your mouth as your jaw closes halfway.
Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch PRAHYZD — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.