Push a stream of air from your throat through your open mouth. No tongue or lip contact.

Americans pronounce highlighted as HAHY-lahy-tuhd (/ˈhaɪˌlaɪɾəd/). In "highlighted", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, the kind of sound shift that makes everyday speech feel effortless. So instead of HAHY·lahy·tuht, you get HAHY·LAHY·tuhd. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "I highlighted the limitations of the study in my conclusion" or "I highlighted key points while reading to identify important concepts" — more examples below.
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3 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Start with your jaw open wide and your tongue resting low and flat. Glide the front of your tongue up toward the roof of your mouth as your jaw closes halfway.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Add vocal cord vibration as you release.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "highlighted", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
In "highlighted", the "d" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch HAHY — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the second syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.